Food appears to be a defining element to many cultures. Mealtime can involve the exchange of ideas, thoughts, and emotions; it can be intimate, celebratory, vulnerable or casual. I was invited to dinner at Pedro’s home last weekend and given the opportunity to experience home-cooked Mexican food. I gladly accepted.
Growing up in California affords the luxury of having access to a variety of Mexican food places; from Taco trucks to upscale restaurants, the options abound. However, frequenting a Mexican restaurant hardly counts as cultural immersion, nor is it particularly adventurous (from the perspective of a Californian). But regardless, it was my first time enjoying this type of food outside of a commercial setting (and enjoy, I did).
Over dinner, we talked about various issues such as current events and a basketball game happening at the time (Warriors vs. Lakers). When the topic of the President came up, the conversation shifted toward immigration and general politics. My assumption was that Mexican Americans largely supported the Democratic party and its policy platforms. However, he indicated that there was a diversity of views within the Mexican community regarding contemporary democratic positions.
Pedro shared that, although he and his family largely support democratic candidates, the issue of abortion can be alienating to some members of the community. He attributed this to the prevalence of Catholicism among Hispanic communities and conservative traditions.
The dinner was a great experience. Aside from the delicious food, I gained insight regarding diversity within a community. I, personally, am a pro-choice advocate. However, I realize that it’s important that my positions do not offend or interfere with communities I am trying to help. Sensitivity and nuance are required to be an effective helper.
Ivan Carnice 